There's just too much of Molly, from my point of view. And she seems to spread it all around willy-nilly, even when it's probably not the most sensitive, needed, wanted, useful thing to do.

(I do need to read a bit more about Shadows, though, because I'm not sure I understand it properly.)

It's just so scary that the more I think about this the more I realize I am Ginny. It's very disheartening.

There, there - *large, smothering hug*

I so cannot imagine me being your mother.:-) But I do wonder what the Mother/Daughter dynamic might be between Molly and Ginny ..Mrs W seems to be someone who focuses very strongly on her sons (or, at least, some of them) and doesn't pay much attention to Ginny. I guess Ginny compensates for that by becoming just another one of the lads.