LOL, yeah, I left my boyfriend because I kept thinking someday my Snape will come. Thank God JKR made me see the light! Although, it actually just seems to be Slytherin bad boys we should avoid, Gryffindor bad boys like Sirius & James being presented as the height of cool. It is too bad that interesting characters were diminished in favor of whatever "message" JKR was going for. Ah, well, there's always fan-fiction to make things right.